I've Learned a Few Lessons

I'm only 19 almost 20 and I have learned a few lessons in life being young. Most deffiently after messing with my financial aid getting help to pay for freaking college. You know all i wanted to do is just get the help to pay for school so I can go and learn something and do something with my life. But nope they have to make it extra extra hard just to get that grant for college its almost as if they want the rich kids to go to college now. So fighthing to get my financial aid has really taught me a big lesson in life. Theres some things in life to avoid I dont wanna go through what my parents are going through.

I'm avoiding student loan thats a loan you have to pay back the school which is a waste of money my dad got it and now he's paying back the school and he still owes alot of money to the school. So i deffiently will skip that and make sure my kiddo's skip that one to.

I wanna make sure i dont land in a financial mess just like my parents did because of that financial mess we havent been able to enjoy the fun stuff. At the time my dad said oh yeah we will go to disneyland once we get out of this financial mess. Everytime id ask him to take us to disneyland. And he would say yes i wanna take you guys before you all grow up and move out of the house. Now that we finally get the chance to go to disneyland which is nice cant wait to go in october this year. :)

Me and my husband are soooo getting our kiddo's a savings accoung a college fund or whatever they wanna do with it. I wanna make sure they have the money for college so my 18 or 19 year old arent fighting to get financial aid help to pay for college just like im in now and it will save them the pain they will have all the money in a savings account under their own name and they will be able to access it once they graduate from high school. Cause i hate doing this getting help to pay for school my mom regrets not setting up a college fund for me at all. cause we didnt have the money to put it into a college fund. Which will be nice for my kids to have.

I also dont wanna live with my parents ever again. I hate to make my own family feel misaroble and make them have to live with their Grandpa and Grandma just to help take care of my parents and stuff. I really hope to not have to put up with that again after living with my grandma for 3 years yeah i really hope my parents can take care of them selfs and i hope that they really dont end up needing me to move in and help take care of them I love my parents but seriously as much as i like living with my parents now its just way to much id hate to force my own family into moving in with my parents or my parents moving in with me. its just to much to handle. All though i wouldnt mind helping them out and stuff.