Goals

I have known ever since 9th grade where i wanted to be after High School and to be able to finally save up to build my dream home or buy a home is what i'm working on and i have all these other goals to accomplish as for my Jealous best friend sadly doesn't have an idea about where she wants to be in her life. Its nice that she's supportive but i've learned the lesson never tell someone my goals ever again cause this just caused Jealousy and you know what? I don't care my friends have no say where i end up in my life. If there's a better job opportunity out of Utah clearly that is up to me and my future husband to make the choice. I've also read if someone can't be happy for their friend it means they are not happy with their life. If she needs help making choices of where to be in 5 or 10 years she's got problems cause that's her own choice to make of where she wants to be in 5 or 10 years. She has been on my case about accomplishing my goals so fast and way to soon  you are bound to mess up while accomplishing the goal. It may not make sense to her at all but i know what i'm clearly doing. Its called a work in progress but she just won't leave me alone about it. She doesn't know that everyone works at something at a different time in life. She will forever be Jealous of me and i don't care. I'm not breaking up with my boyfriend just to be lonely with her that would show that she's control of my life when really i am the one in control of myself. Just because my brother and my mom stopped working on their dream careers doesn't mean they will stop me. That's their life i can't tell them to get a better career if they have no passion to go back into schooling for it. That's their destiny not mine. She clearly has ZERO goals in her life so if she's so worried about my life than she isn't happy with her life. I'm sorry not sorry for anything its my life i will live it the way i want to. Cry me a river if you can't handle it. Cause i don't have time for Jealousy people in my book. if i work on a goal to fast i'd be bound to mess up more and i'd be less satisfied with the results and certainly if i get forced to do it on someone else's time than that means i'm making them happy and i'd only make myself miserable cause it wouldn't feel exciting as if i were to do it on my own then it will be more enjoyable. Its just annoying that she doesn't understand my point of view but whatever she chose not to understand it so i'm not going to waste my energy on it again.